Our losses

It is as if he is paying the rent of our life… With the absence of the things we have lost, a new life begins. Instead of the life we ​​know, we enter into a completely different process with the emptiness of the things we left behind, separated, broken and lost. While trying to adapt to our completely different life, we actually say goodbye to our old life and our old me. With this farewell, we enter a period of mourning. While it is very difficult for a person to say goodbye to a loved one, his old life, profession, whatever he has lost, lost, separated from, it is also very difficult to leave and say goodbye to the old self that he lived with them. However, the things we do not say goodbye to can continue to exist. We must mourn those we have lost and then say our inner goodbyes to them. Maybe we can take a pen and paper in our hands and say goodbye to whatever we lost, lost, broke up with, and we can pour out our feelings, our feelings and our hearts. In the same way, we must say goodbye to our old self in order to enter our new life. We must mourn our loss so that we can reach the stage of acceptance more easily and in a healthy way. When we come to the period of accepting our losses and separations, we are no longer the old me. We become an individual who has changed, transformed and whose spiritual structure and inner world have matured.