As parents, when we tell our children what to do and when and how, we think that we are the only ones in control, we act as if they have no idea or desire in this process, and this causes them to be externally dependent or in constant conflict with their parents. How many of us put ourselves in his shoes when we do or say something to him? How many of us think about how you look while we are doing things? I say make an imagination of it. Are you the child sitting on the floor and your parent above you who was told or shouted at you in some way? How would you feel? Likewise, how is your current parenting in your child’s eyes? Ask him this; How do you see me, what do I look like when I’m angry or doing things? Can you tell me about it and draw it? What would you like to be better? Asking these questions to your child, who is not used to these questions, and although the answers do not make you satisfied and happy, it will cause you to develop deep awareness of what kind of person you are in their eyes. Knowing that we are not perfect is good for both the child and us.
We through the eyes of children
As parents, when we tell our children what to do and when and how, we think that we have only this control, we act as if they have no idea and desire in this process, and this causes them to be externally dependent or in constant conflict with their parents.
