Anger is a healthy and natural emotion that we all feel in different forms and doses, big and small. In other words, it is not important whether the child is angry or angry, but how he expresses it. Children become angry and angry when they do not get what they want, when their desires and needs are hindered, when they are exposed to physical and psychological punishment and threats, when they are disappointed, when they think they have been wronged. The child’s use of violence and aggression when he feels angry and angry, that is, by damaging himself, things and other people, shows that it is an unhealthy way of expression.
Children learn how to express their feelings of anger by taking role models from their environment.
-On the screen (TV, computer, etc.)
-In the family
-In other environments such as school and neighborhood
-In virtual or real games
Anger is reflected in violent ways, and if the child observes it, he or she will take it as an example.
So what can be done in such a moment of anger?
The first thing to do for children to express these feelings in a healthy way when they are angry is to offer them a positive role model.
Activities are carried out to improve the skills of coping with anger. Boundaries are set when aggressive behavior is persisted.
If there is still difficulty in the solution, support is received.